Survivor services

1in6.org

Men are victims, too. The mission of 1in6 is to help men who have had unwanted or abusive sexual experiences live healthier, happier lives.

The organization offers a wide range of information and services for male survivors including a 24/7 online helpline at https://1in6.org/helpline/,,. free and confidential weekly online support groups, trauma-informed trainings and webinars for service providers and a powerful collection of male survivor stories.

I HAVE THE RIGHT TO

In 2015, the "St Paul's Rape Case" prompted an important conversation about sexual assault and bullying in high school. The survivor, Chessy Prout, decided to come forward and claim her rights - and help others do the same. Her organization, I HAVE THE RIGHT TO offers support and numerous resources for victims, including free legal consultations.

SPS ALUMNI THERAPY FUND

Did you know that St. Paul's School has a therapy Fund for alumni survivors.? For information on how to acces the fund, contact Sandra Matheson, an independent victim advocate consultant. Ms. Matheson is immediately available to listen, provide support and information, assist and support survivors in the reporting process, and to refer them to confidential trauma-informed therapeutic care. She can be reached at 603-540-7908 or at smathesonc@yahoo.com..

Both Ms. Matheson and RAINN will refer callers to a third-party administrator for payment of current therapy bills in order to maintain confidentiality after confirming alumni status and a therapy plan. They will not share any information with St. Paul's School.

Concord Crisis Center

A crisis center is a valuable resource for survivors who need any type of support when they are recovering from sexual assault, be it emergency shelter, support groups, court advocacy, and more. The Crisis Center of Central New Hampshire offers all of these things, including a 24/7 crisis hotline, which you can reach at 1.866.841.6229. They are located just 2 miles from SPS, but also offer virtual appointments. If you would like more information on this crisis center, their website can be found at https://www.cccnh.org/

jDOE

JDOE is an app that allows you to file an encrypted, time-stamped and anonymous report without having to fear retaliation. Pursue justice together against repeat offenders with this discrete 3rd party reporting app.

SPS SURVIVORS

Sometimes you just need someone who gets it to lend an ear. Spssurvivors.net matches brave men and women with survivor buddies from St. Paul's school. The site also allows victims to anonymously share their stories. Too often survivors are shamed into silence. Here they are allowed to have a voice. There is no "right" way to talk about sexual assault but change can only happen when we break the silence surrounding this epidemic. .

State Compensation Fund

State Compensation Fund--Every survivor is eligible for compensation from their state's criminal injuries compensation fund. You can find your local compensation program here: https://www.nacvcb.org/index.asp?sid=6 The compensation funds will reimburse you for your medical costs, lost wages and they will pay for counseling. You are eligible to receive this compensation even if the perpetrator is never charged. While the online application is designed to be simple, you can seek assistance from your local sexual assault or victim advocacy organization.

Hotlines

If you are looking for someone to talk to anonymously, hotlines are a great resource for survivors to speak with an experienced crisis center advocate and gain support and information. The 24-hour statewide New Hampshire sexual assault hotline is 1.866.644.3574. The 24-hour National Sexual Assault hotline is 800.656.HOPE (4673).

Survivor Resources